This feeds into something else that’s complex to tackle: the moment where ion turns into toxicity. When writing the script, how hard was it to steer away from an on-the-nose cautionary tale?
Treating all three characters as though they were right is what helped. I don’t think the film tries to make the case that any of them is 100 percent right or 100 percent wrong. I don’t think any of them are really the true villain, and none of them are really the hero. That’s how we avoided it being propaganda for any one of these messages. Because I truly feel that what these three men represent needs to be synthesized in order to have a meaningful life.
Your relationship with work, whatever that is, needs to integrate these three things: a sense of play, a sense of making the world better and a sense of greatness. You need those three things to be in balance within you. If any one of them takes over, you wind up like the characters in the film: ruined. I was just trying to treat the characters with respect—they are a person, not a cliché. I believe in these guys, and I believe that what they’re trying to do is sincere. All that each of them wants is valid to me.
This validation also feeds into your other films, with your interest in the dynamics of male relationships and how men interact in all kinds of pressure cookers.
My experience with life is quite limited, I haven’t traveled widely. I was born in Toronto, but my formative years were in a suburb just outside and my entire experience of maturation took place in groups of men who all had very specific interests, be it video games or board games or any kind of competitive games. Men playing games made me, me. I would watch those relationships and how they’d change and how it’d change me, and I thought there was something mysterious and meaningful to that. So I’ve been investigating it because I don’t think I have quite figured it out.
For me, friendship and fraternity are my biggest motivators in of trying to do things that are difficult. I liked making my friends laugh, and I liked playing games where we pushed each other to discover new things, but I also realized that it can lead to dark places: a group of men with one goal can accomplish amazing things, but then that same group can turn on itself as soon as there’s any outside validation.
It’s a hard thing for me to talk about. But, certainly, this trilogy of movies I’ve made has been specifically about how friendships between men motivate them and help define the personalities of the individual. I always felt my own personality is defined by the people I’m around.